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Joan posted a condolence
Mom, Just wanted to say Happy Mothers Day to you in heaven. We are lost without you and miss you so much. Andrew's and Danielle's wedding werent the same without you there. Love you so much
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Mikey posted a condolence
Nana,
For the past 30 years I got to experience the best grandmother anyone could possibly hope for. Now that you're gone, 30 years doesn't seem nearly long enough.
All of my fondest childhood memories seem to revolve around you. Whether it was our yearly visits to Florida or just a regular Sunday dinner, you were always there: Our Nana, the strong but incredibly loving presence holding our family together.
We all know that you're the world's greatest Nana and I was absolutely thrilled that my son gave you the title, Great Nana, officially. It made me so happy that you got to spend those 4 months with him. It hurts me that he won't be lucky enough to know you and experience your love like we all did. Still, I know that your love during that short time will make an impression on him for the rest of his life.
Cooking with you these past few years on the days leading up to Thanksgiving were the most fun I ever had in a kitchen. I'll do my best this year with the bucket o' stuffing and the rest but I have some impossibly big shoes to fill. In the end I know I'll be fine because I had the greatest teacher anyone could ask for...you!
I'll love you and miss you forever.
Love,
Mikey
(Your best hugger)</b></font><br><br>
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Ricky posted a condolence
Dear Nana,
I can't believe it, I don't think anyone can, the thought of you not being here with us just does not seem to be a reality. We all know that you are in a better place now and that you're with Bobop, but it is still very hard. You will always be the "Greatest Nana" that anyone could ever have. Thank you for always being there for me throughout my life and for teaching me the things that you have and for just being there period, just because you loved me. You were always willing to listen to anything that I had to say and if I ever had a problem or a question, you answered it with the best advice you could give. Thank you for all your great cooking and the great memories from Florida. Nana, I wasn't sure when I sat down if I was going to know where to start, but now that I am here, I know that I could go on forever about how great you are, the great things that you have done for myself and for everyone else and about how much I Love You. I miss you so much, you have no idea. There are two things though, that you have done, that make it a little easier for me to deal with your leaving and to let me know that you are ok. The first thing, is when you practically got up off your hospital bed and pulled me down on top of you and hugged me so tightly. The second thing, is that on the morning of your funeral when my alarm clock went off and "Unforgettable" was the song playing on the radio. These two things let me know that one, you knew I was there by your side and two, that you are ok, happy and are where you are supposed to be; by Bobop's side, smiling down and watching over all of us. Well Nana, I could go on forever, but I'm gonna go now, so until we meet again, tell Bobop I said hello and that I Love You both very much and thank you for everything you've done for me. Love Always, Ricky</b></font><br><br>
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Joanie posted a condolence
To my Beautiful Mother,
What am I going to do now....I love you</b></font><br><br>
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Danielle Marotta posted a condolence
Nan...
I've been thinking about you alot lately. We miss you soooo much. I hope you truly knew just how much we all loved you, how much you meant to our family... for you defined it in every way. You taught us about love, about sticking together and about how family is the most important thing.
I still see that beautiful face of yours, that smile and I can hear your laugh. I really expected to see you this Sunday as I walked out.... for a split second I thought you were here... but instead- all I felt was that sinking feeling when I remembered you were gone...
I miss seeing you at the head of the table, and sleeping on the pink couch... but it always bring a smile to my face when I recall those pictures of you in my minds eye...
I heard this song by Josh Groban today & cried...
Who can say for certain
Maybe you’re still here
I feel you all around me
Your memories so clear
Deep in the stillness
I can hear you speak
You’re still an inspiration
Can it be
That you are mine
Forever love
And you are watching over us from up above
Fly me up to where you are
Beyond the distant star
I wish upon tonight
To see you smile
If only for awhile to know you’re there
A breath away’s not far
To where you are
Are you gently sleeping
Here inside my dream
And isn’t faith believing
All power can’t be seen
As my heart holds you
Just one beat away
I cherish all you gave me everyday
’cause you are mine
Watching me from up above
And I believe
That angels breathe
And that love will live on and never leave
Nan, I know how you always prayed for us... & I will never forget last Thanksgiving when you told me how you always prayed for me & hoped that I would get everything I wished for. Now, you have a better view. I know you're watching all of us from up above... & when all of our dreams come true, we'll know you had a hand in it all along...
I love you Nan....
Always in my Heart.
* *Dan* *</b></font><br><br>
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Angelina posted a condolence
Dear Antoinette,
I have loved you since you were twelve years old, and I am very proud to have been your sister-in-law. I will miss you and also our telephone conversations.Please give Angelo hugs for me and tell him I miss him very much also. There will always be a special place in my heart for you.
Love,
Lillie</b></font><br><br>
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Kristen Capozzi posted a condolence
Nana -- I have to start with thank you for everything that you have given to me and this family. Without you we would have never been possible and I know that the family I have is the biggest blessing that I have in my life. Second to that would be the gift of food and you have shown us amazing ways to prepare everything from catfish to stuffing. You have taught me so many important things and I know that so many things that my mom has taught me are passed on from you. Such as washing fruit... I have been trying to wash grapes prior to eating them. I love you very much, you are in my heart now, and will remain there forever. Give Babop a big kiss for me.
Love you always
Kristen</b></font><br><br>
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MELANIE AND JOE ROMANO posted a condolence
BOB AND FAMILY,WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALWAYS.</b></font><br><br>
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Kim posted a condolence
Hi Nana,
In the short time I was blessed to be apart of your family was an amazing experience, I will always treasure. I look back at the first time I met you and I was so nervous to meet so many at once.... your warm smile and charm immediately lifted my fears. I looked forward to Sundays/Holidays or any nights visiting Mom Matlach's knowing the "girls" would sit around the table and talk over coffee and desserts. Christmas 05'is a memory I will hold so close to my heart. I loved COOKING with you earlier in the day and sharing in the traditions you inspired. As Bob said, You are now in eternity with your love and I couldn't imagine a better place to be.</b></font><br><br>
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Jen posted a condolence
Hi Nana,
I can so vividly remember the thoughts that went through my head the first time I met you. You were absolutely STUNNING! I was blown away by the physical beauty of your entire family....and soon after I was completely overwhelmed by the inner beauty of your entire family. Being around such a large group of people who are truly committed to each other is so inspirational. This is the kind of family every person should strive to be a part of - bonded, loving, caring, thoughtful and kind. The biggest compliment I can give you is that you remind me so much of my own Grandmother, whom I love so dearly. Thank you for always being so sweet and welcoming towards me. Always know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers. I know that my Grandpa is up in Heaven waiting to meet both you and your husband....I hope you enjoy each others' company... God Bless you always..... Love, Jen</b></font><br><br>
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Vicki and Joe Marangeillo posted a condolence
Dear Mrs. Stefania,
Thank you for sharing your amazing legacy and loving family with us. Your have given us very dear and most treasured friends forever.
Love, Vicki and Joe</b></font><br><br>
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Maureen posted a condolence
Dear Aunt Annette,
I will miss you till the end of time. When ever I talked with you I always came away with a such a good feeling. Love, your niece Maureen</b></font><br><br>
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Joan posted a condolence
Dear Sweet Momma,
How can I ever put all my thoughts on a single page, when all you have taught us and done for us would take up volumes. Your wisdom and intuition knew no bounds. You were our guide. our lighthouse, our constant, and of course...our chef! No one could cook like you! Please be with me when i have to make our vat-o-stuffing for Thanksgiving. Your granddaughters will be really upset if the stuffing doesn't taste just like Nana's and don't forget the turkey soup the next day!!!
Thanks for all the memories you have created fo us and the strength of your love that held us together as a family.
Right now I'm on auto-pilot, but when the dust settles, I know my heart will feel like its breaking. I love you and will miss you forever. Give Daddy a big kiss and hug for me...until we are reunited in heaven. Love, Joanie</b></font><br><br>
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Andrew posted a condolence
Nana,
You were the greatest Nana anyone could ever dream of having. You have taught us so much that we probably don't even realize.
I looked in my freezer, and it made me very sad. I see that last jar of beef barley soup you made for me. As much as I would love to eat it, I want to save it, but, YOU KNOW I'll eat it and think of you. Heaven just acquired an excellent cook.
I know that you are with Bopop looking down upon us. Tell him that the hot almonds haven't been the same without him on Christmas Eve. Say hi to Great-Grandma also, you're all probably playing some SWEEP and screaming DADAL!! With a bottle of anisette as well of course.
I hope I have many dreams of you & Bopop together just like in all of those great photos the girls put together.
<3 I LOVE YOU <3</b></font><br><br>
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Elizabeth posted a condolence
I have a dull ache in my heart because I lost someone very special to me. You taught me many things and gave me many gifts; I could never thank you enough for your wonderful son. You taught your children good values and the importance of family, but your values and lessons were so strong that you taught others as well, and you didn't even know it. You were a wonderful mother and I am blessed that you were my mother-in- law. Thank you for everything you've given me.I only hope I can be half the mother to my children that you were to yours. You will always have a very special place in my heart.</b></font><br><br>
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Little Bob posted a condolence
To my Nana,
Naaa it is an honor and a privilege to say that you and Bobop were my grandparents. I am so thankful that you are the reason we have such a wonderful loving family. You left us all with a lifetime of memories that we will share and cherish until we join you up in Heaven. When I think about it, I know that we are all very blessed to have had you for your 79 wonderful years on this earth. You were always there for us, and we were all there with you in the very end, as I am sure you wouldn’t have wanted it any other way. I know that for the past 9 years Bobop must have been saying Take your time but hurry up, I miss you Antoinette! Selfishly we all wanted you longer but know in our hearts you are in a much better place. I truly believe that I will see you again and can’t wait for the day to give you a big hug and kiss! Nana Jesus wanted you home and now you are with him in heaven, along with the rest of your family. I know you and Bobop are looking down from paradise smiling from ear to ear at all the love we have for you.
I am glad we spent so much time together the past few months, having lunch at your condo talking about work, stocks, Atlantic City and just chatting, they are all memories I will never forget. One thing that I will personally carry in my heart is the last words you ever spoke to me. It was at the hospital only a few long days ago, I am sure it was meant for all your family, and I quote “Bob, I love you with all of my heart and soul". As you whispered to me in the hospital I tried with everything to hold back the emotion and tears as I am right now but I knew that you meant it and that is why it was, and is, so hard to let you go. You touched my heart in ways that you never could imagine and I will forever be proud to say that you were and always will be MY NANA.</b></font><br><br>
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Allan Zaretsky&Diane Deutsch posted a condolence
To the Stefania family---You were all so blessed to have such wonderful parents and grandparents as Antoinette and Mario. Keep them alive in your hearts and with all your beautiful memories. Be happy knowing that they are together again!!! Love Allan and Diane</b></font><br><br>
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Gina, Don & the girls- Schlueter posted a condolence
What can I say...this all happened so fast, its hard to believe.
I will always remember Aunt Annette's smile and laugh. I can hear her saying... "Oohh Gina, those girls!" She gave great hugs, always reminded me of my Mima and how she hugged me.
I know Uncle Mario was waiting for her with his long awaited hugs as well. He was saving a seat for her at the card table. Now they can all play together. I bet they are having a big party as we speak.. with THE BEST food and booze!
I look forward to seeing her in my dreams with the rest of the family... and giving her a big hug from me.
Our love, thoughts and prayers are with ALL of you. We will miss her terribly.
Love always...
Gina, Don, Natalie & Lindsay
xoxoxoxo</b></font><br><br>
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milton & ilona Grill posted a condolence
To The Stefania Family,
May Antoinette Stefania, shine through all of you. We loved her for her grace,her beauty within and her outward charm. I always told her she looked exactly like Lana Turner, and she would laugh with such modesty. We will miss her in the JCC pool. She loved her family and was so proud of all of you. She will be with us in our hearts forever. With Our Deepest Regards, Ilona and Milton Grill</b></font><br><br>
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debbie and family posted a condolence
our thoughts and prayers are with you aunt joyce and your family during this very difficult time. moms are very, very special angels on and off this earth! love you! deb</b></font><br><br>
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Fran Martini posted a condolence
Hi Annette: I am so happy for the day I was walking my dog Polo around the Bluffs and Joyce recognized me afater years of me not living on Long Island. Was even more thrilled when you and your family bought homes here and we resumed our relationship 10 fold. The Bluff's pool is you, Annette. I know how much you loved and enjoyed yourself in the water and the best part was we were suppose to be doing water therapy for your legs and all we did was talk and laugh the whole time. Thank you for making me feel so special. Every time I was in your presence I felt so comforted and it was such a great sense of security just as if I were with with my own mother. Thank you for my brocoli rabe that you would surprise me with and all the delicious meals you made. I feel so blessed to have shared some part of your life. Words cannot say how your presence will be missed but your spirit will always be in my heart. Until we are all together again, you will Always be in my prayers. Love Frannie</b></font><br><br>
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Your Son Bob posted a condolence
I received the best gift ever by having you and Daddy as my mom and dad. Your love and devotion to me and my sisters was truly unconditional. I can only hope and pray that I can pass that same love on to Marie and Danielle, so your legacy can live on.
Anyone that knows us, knows I was your "Sonny Boy", that being a very special bond between us. I love you , Mom, forever and ever.
Bobby</b></font><br><br>
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Joyce posted a condolence
Hi Ma,
I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS HAPPENED! I was sure you were coming home in a few days. But, I know Jesus loves you and had mercy on you. He didn't let you suffer. I know that you're happy now with Daddy, Grandma and all your realtives. Tell Daddy I love him and give him a kiss for me. Mom, you were more than a mother - you were my best friend. You taught me values, love, forgiveness, caring...you gave me strength in hard times. You were the best cook ever. How am I going to make the Christmas cookies without you? I'll always miss you. You'll always be in my heart.
Love always and forever,
Joyce</b></font><br><br>
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Nicole posted a condolence
Nana, as I sit here comtemplating every memory we have had, it seems like a lifetime has passed. And as I go through the old pictures, I can see the love that you have given to everyone around you and see how loved you were. Every time Danielle curls her hair, or every time I see someone made up and looking as beautiful as you always did, I will think of you. I know that now you are in a far better place now. You and babop are dancing to unforgettable in paradise. One day it will be time for me to come and see you both. But, until then give babop a big hug for me and tell him I love him. I love and miss you nana.
Love always,
Nicole</b></font><br><br>
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Lisa & Martin Zaretsky posted a condolence
Some time you meet people with strong family relationships, but when talk about the Stefania's strong doesn't come close to connection that Annette and Mario Stefania have instilled into their children and grandchildren. The bond, respect for one another and the love for each other provided a wonderful example of family that I have been priviledged to have shared for over 30 years. You can not say enough of the values for family that they have given theirs. I have to say that I am envious of the way they all care and share their lives together. It seems that the Stefania's created the word Family. With Antoinette and Morris being the perfect examples of dedicated parents, grandparents and just wonderful people. Annette and .Mario will always be in my heart and thoughts for ever and ever.</b></font><br><br>
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Danielle (monkey) posted a condolence
Nana,
I know I knew you for many years but it felt like 9 seconds and now you're gone.When ever climb on my dad I will think of you.
Love xoxoxo,
Danielle (your little monkey)</b></font><br><br>
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Melissa posted a condolence
Nana,
Thank you so much for always making me feel welcome in this family. I always felt like I was one of your grandchildren, just as special as everyone else. I will always remember you as a beautiful, loving, smiling, warm, lipstick wearing, always put together, happy, soup and stuffing cooker, greatest nana ever. Again, thank you so much for making me feel welcome and loved. I appreciate it more than you know. Lots of hugs from Mikey, I know you loved them.</b></font><br><br>
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Lee & Gina Manolis posted a condolence
She was a great women and will be dearly missed. Her spirit will always live in our hearts.</b></font><br><br>
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Kathie posted a condolence
To My Dearest Mom,
Thank you for being such a wonderful and loving mother. You taught me so much, lessons only a mother can share with her child. Remember, I always told you I could never begin to return to you what you have given me... that it was a gift...one that I will pass on to my own daughters with love and pride. I know you are with Daddy, give him the biggest kiss from his "little girl" and kiss Grandma, too. Don't stay up too late talking to Uncle Patty. I will make sure I "fix my hair and put a little lipstick on." Watch over all of us as you always have. You and Daddy will always be in my heart.
All My Love Always
Your Kissing Bug
Kathie</b></font><br><br>
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Norma and Joe posted a condolence
Antoinette, I love you and will miss you! My heart is so filled with sorrow. I know you are in a better place and that your with your beloved Mario. I'll miss your wonderful baking and our weekly conversations. Rest in peace sweetheart. Always in our hearts Norma and Joe</b></font><br><br>
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Andy posted a condolence
Our deepest condolences to you and your entire family. Love Andy, Peter, Alex and Daniel</b></font><br><br>
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Heather posted a condolence
To dear sweet friends,
We are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love to you all.
Heather, Vincent, Belle, and Jack</b></font><br><br>
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Marie posted a condolence
Dear Nana,
You were always there for me when I needed you the most and you always wanted to come see me skate or dance. I will miss you so much but always remember that you are looking over us.Love you!!</b></font><br><br>
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Marie posted a condolence
Dear Nana,
You were always there for me when I needed you the most and you always wanted to come see me skate or dance. I will miss you so much but always remember that you are looking over us.Love you!!
Marie</b></font><br><br>
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Bob posted a condolence
Nana, I know you are in a better place. I had a dream last night and saw Babop. He was dressed in a tuxedo and he looked so young and so amazing. He looked at me, pointed and said,"Don't worry, everything is alright!" I can only imagine the times you two will have for eternity. Thanks for all the years of love and support. Love always, Bob.</b></font><br><br>
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Camille Palazzolo posted a condolence
Aunt Annette, my Godmother, I have such beautiful memories of you and Uncle Mario from when I was small and played with Candy your poodle, to now at our coffee get-togethers. We love you and will miss you, and will pray for you always, until we see you again! Watch over all of us too! I love you!</b></font><br><br>
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Anonymous posted a condolence
HEYYY GORGEOUSS!!,
Nanni you were always there for me at every recital or birthday. Thank you for everything we will miss you so much. Your Our Angel now!!! I'm going to miss your meatballs and soup though! Give Bobop a kiss for me! I'm so happy you can finally be with him..I must say you did an amazing job with our family!! .. I love you alwayss..... Alaina...</b></font><br><br>
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Anonymous posted a condolence
HEYYY GORGEOUSS!!,
Nanni you were always there for me at every recital or birthday. Thank you for everything we will miss you so much. Your Our Angel now!!! I'm going to miss your meatballs and soup though! Give Bobop a kiss for me! I'm so happy you can finally be with him..I must say you did an amazing job with our family!! .. I love you alwayss..... Alaina...</b></font><br><br>
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Jill & Bobby Pasqualone posted a condolence
Dear Joyce, Joanie & Family,
Bobby And I just want you all to know that our thoughts and prayers are with each and everyone of you. We are so sorry about your loss.</b></font><br><br>
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Grace Jean posted a condolence
Aunt Annette, when I think of you, I think of coffee and cake and talking and laughing until midnight sometimes! We had the best girls club ever and you always had good advice and words of wisdom for everyone. I'm so glad we were all together at the wedding. You will be missed very much and remembered often. God bless you and keep you now.
Love,
Grace Jean</b></font><br><br>
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Stefanie, Jenna, and Danielle posted a condolence
Dear Aunt Annette, You will always be remembered in our hearts and will be missed very much. May you and Uncle Mario together watch over your legacy, the beautiful family you brought here. We love you so much! Love Always, Stefanie, Jenna, & Danielle</b></font><br><br>
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Sara Yard posted a condolence
Bobby & Family,
May your memories of your mom bring you peace during this time of unexpected loss. You are in my prayers.
Love,
Sara</b></font><br><br>
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Gabrielle posted a condolence
I love you aunt Annette and although I know you are in a better place, happy to be with Uncle Mario once again, we will miss you terribly. I'll never forget all of our coffee clutches, they were joyous times and I will treasure those memories of you! I love you. Gabrielle</b></font><br><br>
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Toni & Gabe posted a condolence
Dear Aunt Annette, you've been a dear aunt and a cherised friend to us always. We love you and will miss you.</b></font><br><br>
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Danielle posted a condolence
Nan,
You will ALWAYS be on my mind & FOREVER in my heart...
Have fun with Bobop! Watch over us & be our angel.
Love you always...
*dan*</b></font><br><br>
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