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Wednesday
3
May
Visitation at Funeral Home
4:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Wednesday, May 3, 2023
Oyster Bay Funeral Home
261 South Street
Oyster Bay, New York, United States
Thursday
4
May
Mass
10:30 am
Thursday, May 4, 2023
St. Dominic RC Chapel
96 Anstice Street
Oyster Bay, New York, United States
Final Resting Place
St. Charles Cemetery
Conklin Street
Farmingdale, New York, United States
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Louis G. Pillari posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 13, 2023
We would like to express our sincere condolences to your family. It has been our privilege to assist you during this very difficult time. If there is anything further we can do we are here for you.
Lou Pillari, & Staff
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Wednesday, May 3, 2023
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Grandma Peggy was one of a kind. Grandma genuinely listened; she shared in your excitement, and showed empathy always. If she was worried, you surely wouldn’t know it, because she never complained. Grandma put her trust in God and found ways to make the best of things no matter what. She was certainly the most flexible person I knew.
Despite being an avid Mets fan, Grandma Peggy never expressed disappointment at my Red Sox apparel once I moved to Massachusetts. Grandma would just laugh, and was happy that I found a great place to live, settled into a career I enjoy, and surrounded myself with supportive and caring people. I’ll always remember Grandma attending my Stonehill College graduation. Grandma would always ask about my friends, and I was continuously impressed by how she could remember their names and interests in school, and then the professions they went on to pursue. Grandma listened to my countless ski stories and always made me feel loved when expressing genuine curiosity about my life.
Wellness was important to Grandma. Although she did have quite the sweet tooth–especially for candy corn, jelly beans, and Swedish Fish, she kept busy raising a family with Grandpa. Grandma shifted to volunteering at the Mothers’ Center, attending slimnastics classes at Echo, babysitting my cousins, attending events for her 13 grandchildren, and tending to Grandpa’s needs and requests in the later years. She also kept her mind active by reading novels from the library and keeping up to date with pop culture in the paper and magazines.
Grandma welcomed everybody into the family. Her sons/daughters in-laws became her own children, and even their families were always welcome at holidays and became special additions to family gatherings. Trim-a-tree parties and BBQs were some of the most memorable gatherings. Home cooking for a crowd was something that grandma did regularly and she would be all decked out in her apron (often the one I gifted her from my study abroad time in Florence, Italy-we had a matching set).
Grandma was an excellent cook and not the type of cook who gets stressed when the kitchen is crowded. She was the queen of potatoes; when in doubt, using heaping tablespoons of mayo for “patata” salad, pats of butter on twice baked potatoes, or sprinkles of kosher salt and a shake of “peppah” on green beans made everything taste good. Even on the hottest of days, Grandma would stir rice puddin’ on the stove since she knew we all loved it. On the flip side, when attending a gathering as a guest, Grandma always appreciated whatever you had on the menu, and looked forward to sipping a glass of red wine in your company.
The theme here with food is that going to Grandma and Grandpa’s in Lynbrook meant you could indulge and enjoy yourself in good company. As a kid, Grandma would allow me to have fruit snacks because they are made with “real” fruit. As I got older, I took a liking to drinking tea. Brewing a pot of Lipton or “pep-uh-mint” tea and sitting down to enjoy conversation with Grandma Peggy and round 2 of dessert with Grandpa was relaxing.
Every so often I would give Grandma and Grandpa a call to check in. Veterans Day was always a day to call, and Grandma would get on the phone and say, "I had a bet with grandpa that you would call." It always made me smile to chat on the phone with her. I will still continue to call Grandpa; however, I will definitely miss hearing Grandpa say, “Hold on, I’ll put Grandma on.”
Speaking of bets, Grandma loved watching horse races. Although she would keep her bets a secret, usually horse #7 was a part of the wager –in honor of her 7 children. Grandma Peggy was a regular attendee at social gatherings including but not limited to Mary Anne's infamous parties for the triple crown (among other holidays such as Halloween, St. Patrick’s Day, and 4th of July) Summer vacations were a highlight too. Onchiota with Grandpa and their children were definitely special given the countless stories that they would reminisce over the years. Time in the Poconos was a tradition that included extended family and where my mom got to meet Grandma and Grandpa as a friend of Mary Anne’s before later attending a ski trip and meeting Dad. In the Poconos, Grandma took Kaitlyn and me on a ride on I-80 to go shopping. Grandma let us go to the candy store and pick out whatever we wanted, every child’s dream. Trips to Saratoga with dear family/friends Bride and Alex were special times to enjoy good company, watch the races, and of course enjoy the Marriott family discount.
It was the simple things that made Grandma Peggy happy. Quality time with others was something she always looked forward to. Grandma Peggy, Grandpa Mike, Bride, Alex and Aunt Janet would all caravan out to “Tan-gers” a couple of times a year. I had the great treat of joining them one time. Grandma helped me pick out new running shoes at Nike and got some birthday gifts for family members–always thinking of others and sometimes splurging on a new turtle neck or cowl neck sweater, one of her iconic looks. The ladies would shop until they dropped, and the men would enjoy conversation over a cup of coffee and reading the paper or a good book. The highlight was going to an early bird dinner to cap off the day of shopping.
More quality time for me with Grandma Peggy included our trips to the movie theater together. Although George Clooney’s swearing in the Descendants was a bit of a surprise in front of a grandparent who was so refined and respectful, it was still a good movie and a memorable time. Movies often were followed by dinner with chauffeur and GPS-free Grandpa Mike. Later on, Grandma and I would let Grandpa enjoy control of the remote at home and go out for lunch or get our nails done. Of course we would always bring home a little something from the take out menu for Grandpa too! My visits “home” to New York were, and still are, special. Spending time with Grandma and Grandpa was always a highlight of my time.
As I mentioned, Grandma Peggy loved entertaining and visits from family and friends. She would always stand outside or wave from the door as we drove away. Waving goodbye to her and mentioning our waving tradition was the last conversation I had with Grandma Peggy. I happened to be on Long Island for my April vacation as a teacher last week, where I had the opportunity to visit Grandma in the hospital. This was not the first time I visited Grandma in a hospital, but it was certainly the hardest. I had the chance to enjoy alone time with Grandma to tell her about my most recent adventures of skiing and show her pictures from the vacation my parents’ had just returned from, knowing that Dad would have been there visiting with me if he didn’t get sick himself. In the hospital I was greeted by my godmother, Aunt Mary (Grandma’s daughter) and Uncle Dennis, who helped keep me company during the visit. Eventually it was time to leave and go check in on Grandpa next (with a delivery of cookies of course!). As I said goodbye, Grandma wouldn’t stop waving and smiling. I pulled down my mask to give her a big smile and blow a kiss goodbye for what would be the last time.
Reading others’ comments on the memorial site have been helpful in remembering Grandma Peggy in a special way. Seeing the overlaps in our memories and stories solidifies that she was the same around everybody. Grandma treated us all equally and didn’t play favorites (even if some of us like to believe we were the favorite at times). She made everybody feel special, loved, and welcome. At this time, she is gone with us here on Earth, but we know that up in Heaven, she’s returned to so many loved ones. While we miss her dearly, I know she will watch over us and continue to inspire us to be our best selves each day. It must truly be a party up there in heaven! Margaret/Peg/Peggy/Mom/Grandma Peggy/Aunt Peggy/Mrs. Rose will never be forgotten and she’ll always be remembered in a special way. Rest in peace. I love you Grandma!
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Doreen Evans posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 3, 2023
As we say goodbye to Aunt Peg, there's something we all have: a boatload of great memories. The gatherings in Lynbrook and Northport and for us older folks, 76th Street in Woodhaven. She was always there, with encouragement and a smile. Always a smile. RIP Peg.
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Janet Farrell posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 2, 2023
As a friend of Mike’s for many years there were so many memories that took place in Lynbrook and I was always excited to be included. Of course, holidays and birthdays were special events but Sunday lunch get togethers were a wonderful gathering time to just “be together”. It’s
A while back, but, I think it was called a Woodside lunch .Family and friends were everything to all and you would just bring a folding chair and a dish and enjoy the day with the family.
Mrs. Rose, you will be missed but, memories will last forever and we look forward to the day when we are all together again. God bless the family and bring peace and understanding.
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Kaitlyn Rose uploaded photo(s)
Monday, May 1, 2023
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I’m blessed to have had 35 years of memories with Grandma Peggy - the most special of which were made at her and Grandpa Mike’s home for decades in Lynbrook, NY.
Grandma Peggy was loving, calm and most of all: kind. She was attentive to each of her children and grandchildren, and was always there to celebrate their milestones, both big and small.
Speaking of celebrations, Grandma Peggy was a hostess like no other (and not just because of the liberal application of butter on her twice-baked potatoes). There was always space for one more at her dining room table (and at the kids table annex, where the real party was). Sit-down, family dinners were tradition as we observed Thanksgiving, trimmed the tree or toasted to Christmas - and to Grandma and the magic she made while wearing her apron (kudos went to Grandpa too, of course, for the ribs and filet mignon).
Like most Roses, Grandma enjoyed her Pinot Grigio and her Bailey’s; on holidays, the stories would come out after dinner in the dining room over our final sips of the evening. Reminiscing about the Poconos or Onchiota or driving across the country, all of the tales centered on the importance of tradition and time spent together with family.
Truly, time with family was something Grandma never wanted to end; at the close of any party, the GC Roses (Kevin, her son/my father, Eileen, my mom, Allison, my sister, and me) would drive away from Blossom Heath while watching Grandma wave goodbye from the window. But it was never really goodbye; there was always another celebration around the corner.
Her passing isn’t goodbye, either. We will meet again, and will keep her memory alive forever.
One last thing: in addition to being loving, calm and kind, Grandma was selfless. As many know, when Peggy Lingen became Peggy Rose, she also became Mom overnight to two young boys named Michael and Kevin. Their birth mother had passed away at a very young age, leaving their father (Grandpa Mike) a widower. Grandma gave their little family hope and happiness following such tragedy - and she grew it into the amazing and BIG family it is today. She was an angel who walked into their lives years ago - and she’s an angel who will now watch over all of us, forever.
I extend sincere condolences to my Grandpa and father, and to all my aunts, uncles and cousins, who cherished Grandma Peggy so dearly. Lots of love to everyone, and may we take solace in the absolute CREW that will reunite upstairs to watch the Derby together this weekend.
xoxo,
Kaitlyn
PS: Who want's Bailey's?
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Alexis Boehme uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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What a shining light you were to me and everyone who loved you
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Celeste Kopp uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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Couple of photos from Maureen and Hilary's 50th.
Aunt Peggy will be missed - I will remember her laugh, her sense of style, her patience and her grilled cheese sandwiches. We will always have memories of Arrowhead and Brodie Mountain. The world was a better place with her in it.
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John Evans posted a condolence
Sunday, April 30, 2023
Aunt Peggy was a truly wonderful person, with extraordinary positivity. She always seemed to look on the bright side of life, and saw the humor in everyday life. I remember her allowing us to play soccer in her basement at Blossom Heath. Many great cousin get-togethers with the Mosemans, Roses, and Boehmes. Condolences to Uncle Mike, Michael, Kevin, Mary, Katie, Tim, Matthew and Elizabeth.
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Saturday, April 29, 2023
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Janet Lehmbeck-Morgan posted a condolence
Friday, April 28, 2023
Aunt Peggy had such a sweet, gentle way about her and quiet, tender voice almost like a hush when she spoke. I never heard her raise her voice. She was a kind and lovely lady. I have the fondest memories of her, Uncle Mike, and all my cousins at parties at Blossom Heath. Heaven has gained back an Angel but the love remains with us all. My deepest condolences to you, Uncle Mike, my cousins, Michael, Kevin, Mary, Katie, Tim, Matthew and Elizabeth, spouses and children. Love you
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Carol Solotoff posted a condolence
Friday, April 28, 2023
Q: What will you never forget about Margaret?
A: Aunt Peggy had a beautiful smile, and a gentle laugh
She was the only Aunt who called me by my Baptismal Name
“Carol Ann”
She always seemed interested in the other person while having a conversation and rarely offered her opinion but, smiled politely.
* I will never forget the fact , both She and I were pregnant at the same time. She chuckled as we attended a Family gathering, wearing Maternity Clothing!
A truly beautiful soul has risen and joined our family in Heaven
As Cousins we share one more commonality …
April 27 th is the date My Mother
passed away, 6 years ago.
May they walk together again
in Peace.
Gone but Never Forgotten
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