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10:00 am
Thursday, August 28, 2014
Church Of Our Lady Of Kazan, Sea Cliff, NY
Willow Shore Avenue Sea
Cliff, New York, United States
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Louis G. Pillari posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 9, 2014
We would like to express our sincere condolences to your family. It has been our privilege to assist you during this very difficult time. If there is anything further we can do we are here for you.
Lou Pillari & Staff
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Pam posted a condolence
Thursday, August 28, 2014
I'm so saddened by this news. Mitch was a kind and generous man who, above all else, loved his family - most especially his children. Prayers to all the family. Rest in peace, Mitch.
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Chris Incontro posted a condolence
Thursday, August 28, 2014
To a great family friend... may you rest in peace forever Mitch.
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Heidi Torpey posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 27, 2014
You are taken from us way too early. It was an honor knowing you and working for you. Love, Heidi...bless your family
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Doretta posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 27, 2014
I've known Mitch since my late teens and can only repeat what others have already said about this absolutely wonderful man. Kind, generous and FUN...I will miss him forever...
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Ellen Corwin posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 27, 2014
My deepest condolences to his family. Our hearts are broken. This summer we were fortunate to have spent a lot of time with Mitch. I remember him speaking of the love for his children and beaming about Layla and Jayden. He said "thank god for them". I will miss him. He made everyone feel like they were his best friend.
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alan corwin posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 27, 2014
It`s still so hard to believe my best friend is gone. I didn't know it at the time, but meeting Mitch when I was twelve was one of the best things that happened in my life. He was not only my closest friend but my first "cool" friend. I had never known anyone so generous and giving as Mitch. Playing in the band together was just another amazing time we had. When we argued the way kids do there was no staying mad at him. He was too good-hearted and we never stayed angry for long. Lately, Mitch had been talking about getting the band back together. The fact that it will never happen break`s my heart. I love you and I`ll miss you my 4th brother.
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Jim and Bernice posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 27, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Much too soon. What a tragedy. May his memory be a blessing.
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Miriam Ornstein Rodriguez posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 27, 2014
All my memories of Mitch bring a smile to my face....I was his Executive Assistant at Select Media Communications and I loved the time I spent working for him, and basically taking care of his life at that time. He was generous and funny and just a wonderful guy to work for. I have thought of him often over the years and will continue to. The world is a little bit sadder without him and he will be missed by many.
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Jim and Bernice posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 27, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Much too soon. What a tragedy. May his be a blessing.
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Joanna posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 26, 2014
"God saw you getting tired
and a cure was not to be
so he put his arms around you
and whispered, "Come to Me"
With tearful eyes we watched you
and saw you pass away
and although we love you dearly
we could not make you stay.
A Golden heart stopped beating
hard working hands at rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best"
Mitch was a great man and I am saddened to hear about his passing. My prayers and thoughts go out to his family. Rest easy Mitch
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Jimmy List posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 26, 2014
what the hell, heres another one . I have moved away from Long Island for quite a few years now. My interactions with Mitch were few and far inbetween. A few years ago I was going through some serious health challanges. Mitch heard about it and immediatly called me up. Didnt matter that we had not talked in a long time. Freindships like this dont care about that sort of thing. We spoke a bit, and we both realized we were watching American Idol. We started a spirted debate about who was better and also began ragging on the bad ones and each other. damn it Mitch! stop making me laugh, it hurts too much. For several weeks when the show came on, we texted back and forth during the show. Thanks Mitch for my dose of the best medicine , laughter and freindship.
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rebecca posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 26, 2014
I light this candle in memory of Mitch....a beautiful and endearing light in this world he was. he was comical without even knowing it, he was good-natured and kind...he offered to drive me a long way home one night when i didnt have my car, barely knowing me...he gave positive reinforcement and promoted his children's creativity giving them priceless gifts where they could further pursue their artistic passions...he was a unique and caring person. i will really miss him so much. i pray for his family to find peace and comfort in the love and support their friends and family have for them.
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Pius Ojevwe posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 26, 2014
We just celebrated his 60th birthday together less than two weekends ago, and now sundenly gone too soon. I joyfully smiled when I heard him say, "This is the best birthday I've ever had," with a lovely smile in his face. And I very happily replied, we look forward to more of these great times together "POP POP". Now, I'm deeply heartbroken, my spirit is weakened, and still in disbelief. He was the best grandfather/"pop pop" for my children, he came to Marylkand every year to celebrate my children's birthdays, he spoiled my children with presents/gifts regardless of what the day was, he showered them regularly with hugs, kisses, high fives, and with his ever loving words like, "l love you so much Layla and Jayden, you guys are beautiful." My children excitably run to the front of the computer screen when he's calling in via Skype to hear his lovely voice saying "Hi Layla, his sweetheart, I love your hair; and to Jayden, "Hi Jay Jay, that's my boy..." How do I tell them, how do I break this new to them that their wonderful pop pop is gone?" You taught me what it means to prioritize your family above all things, to love so generously and selflessly, and inspired me to be the best father for my children. You were not not an ordinary father-in-law, you were extraordinary beyond belief, and you treated me like your own son. We will miss you dearly dad, we love you very much. May the Good Lord rest your kind soul as your wonderful memories remain with us.
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Bruce Incontro posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 26, 2014
I have been in such a funk since hearing of the passing of my best friend. Mitch was like no other person I knew. He put his family first, loved them all with the completeness of his being and then had enough love left over for all his friends.
Mitch's generosity was boundless. When I first asked my wife out on a date I had no way to drive her to the restaurant, because my ex-wife stole my car. I asked Mitch if I could borrow his Bronco. "Sorry Bruce, it is in the shop, but you can have my BMW. I tell that story to everyone when they ask how I met my wife. I am so glad that we have been together lately. I even got to treat him to dinner for once,at my friend Charlie's restaurant in Huntington. Little did I know that I was bringing my first band's drummer to my second band's drummer for the first time. We had such a great time and I was so glad that I was able to toast all my closest friends and family together. Mitch once told me that if I did not regularly visit my mom he would break my legs. I will always honor Mitch by modeling his kindness and by being the one to reach out to my loved ones and in his words ask, "How are you, and how is your family". Words can not discribe how much I love and will miss my dear friend Mitch.
Bruce
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Claire posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 26, 2014
I feel like Billy Crystal felt when Robin Williams passed. There are no words. Our family lost its patriarch. I've lost my brother, my friend, my mentor. Mitch, I will miss you forever. I never thanked you for being so kind to me on my birthday. I hope you can hear me thanking you now. With love from the deepest part of my heart and soul.
Claire
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Jimmy List posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 26, 2014
So many good memories. I could write a book. Years after our high school garage band days, Mitch asked me to join him at a party bash in his big house. He wanted to get the band back together and play at his party. It was a great fun night. Mitch loved clothes and his wardrobe was always current and spot on. That night he changed his outfit every hour, each change more outlandish than the one before. (think elton john!) Every time I see a Cougar, I see Mitch. I will miss you freind.
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Jenn posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 26, 2014
Uncle Mitch was the best uncle a girl could have. He was supportive, positive and loving. He would drive to the ends of the earth in search of the perfect gift, the perfect meal or the perfect experience. He truly loved doing for others and bringing happiness to everyone and his circle. If anyone was in need, he was the first one to show up. He wouldn't even call. He would just be there. And he would stay for as long as anyone ever needed. He put others first on a consistent basis and made miracles happen. Nothing was impossible and nothing was a problem. I remember Uncle Mitch as being a great gift giver of things, yes, but most importantly a great giver of himself. There will be a very empty seat at the head of the table and in our hearts.
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Marlana posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 26, 2014
Where do I begin? To me, Mitch was the epitome of what being one of the good guys means. He always made me feel welcome in his/your home. I remember many childhood nights of mini golf, movies, watching him play softball, and being amazed at being able to call my mom from his Bronco. I picture him sitting in the chair in the den with a cup of coffee and a cigarette or coming in the front door having just come from the club/golf. Then, when I was in college, he was considering coming up for parents weekend. There are zillions of great memories. "How about that, what a great gift." I feel that he was truly a GREAT GIFT to those lucky enough to have known him. A man of great integrity and passion who I really miss. Much love!!!!!!
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Cindy Llobell posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 26, 2014
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My deepest condolences go out to your family.
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Dana Lauren posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 26, 2014
Love you Daddy. I hate that I'm looking at you through pictures. I want you here. I miss you.
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Perryn posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 26, 2014
The best dad and Pop Pop! Every baseball game, every rite of passage, every day, he was with us in mind body and spirit. I wish he reached out to us when he was going on to heaven. I hear you saying, "Hey Perryn, it's daddy. Just wanted to make sure you got home safe." Now, I just want to know if you made it "home" safe. I love you dad. Never forgotten- always.
love weanie
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