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Friday
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Visitation at Funeral Home
2:00 pm - 5:00 pm
Friday, December 1, 2017
Oyster Bay Funeral Home
261 South Street
Oyster Bay, New York, United States
Friday
1
December
Visitation
7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Friday, December 1, 2017
Oyster Bay Funeral Home
261 South Street
Oyster Bay, New York, United States
Saturday
2
December
Mass
10:00 am
Saturday, December 2, 2017
St. Dominic RC Chapel
96 Anstice Street
Oyster Bay, New York, United States
Final Resting Place
Locust Valley Cemetery
Ryefield Road
Locust Valley, New York, United States
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I am so sorry to hear about Regina. My thoughts are with you all.
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Arlene and Bob posted a condolence
Sunday, December 17, 2017
Dear Tom and Eric, Kelly , Allison, Words cannot express the pain I feel for all of you.
Losing your wife and mother so sudden in your lives, I'm sure is the hardest thing to go through, probably the hardest you'll ever experience in your life. Regina was such a special person, and reading all the comments that people posted gives truth to that.
So many people were affected by her in life, and now with her death . So tragic, we will never understand why, except that she is now an Angel to watch over all the people who loved her so . Regina was always such a loving and caring person towards me and my family. Always showing us that sincere love that everyone has talked about. Over the past few years, I was blessed to have shared some very special and memorable times with all of you. Sharing a mass in memory of your Dad and Grandpa, Howard. Toasting Champagne while talking about our days and the fun memories in each of our lives. Then enjoying a nice dinner together to continue the great conversation we always had. Regina was so full of life, and love. Caring about others was her talent. I will miss her terribly, my heart will never stop aching from the pain of the lose. Tom I pray that you and the children are celebrating what an awesome person Regina was. And the pain that you have in your hearts, feels just a little better when all the memories you share together, make you smile. We loved her very much, she will be missed. She will forever be in our hearts. And may you all find some peace as you go about your days, remember what a special wife and mother she was. God Bless You All. We love all of you, Love Arlene and Bob
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Lesley-Anne Calliste posted a condolence
Sunday, December 17, 2017
Good-bye Regina. As a former colleague and the speech supervisor, I can't express the sorrow felt by her passing. The staff of Districts 19/23/79 join me to express our heartfelt condolences. We will miss her smile and willingness to help. May you find solace in our words of support. Thank-you for sharing her, she was a blessing to the students.
The Speech therapists of Districts 19/23/79 and Supervisor - Lesley-Anne Calliste
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Louis Pillari posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 6, 2017
We would like to express our sincere condolences to your family. It has been our privilege to assist you during this very difficult time. If there is anything further we can do we are here for you.
Lou Pillari & Staff
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Stu Laub posted a condolence
Monday, December 4, 2017
I didn't know have the honor of knowing Regina but have come to know Tom over the past 2 decades. In respect to the family I want to offer my sincere condolences. my deepest sympathies.
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Tashena Heath posted a condolence
Monday, December 4, 2017
You were a wonderful and loving person to work with. Thank you.
I pray your family have peace in this time of sorrow.
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Rashedah Henriques posted a condolence
Sunday, December 3, 2017
To the Multer Family
She was a beautiful soul, warm and loving, she kept us laughing a little more everyday. Reminiscing on the fun I had in high school at the Multer’s house and that one rhyming song she would sing, just reminds me how many smiles she put on any face that came across hers. She was a blessing and still is a blessings to those who came to know her. The Multer family, Mr. Multer, Kelly, Alli and Eric, you will always be in my prayers.
Love
Rashedah Henriques
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Josette posted a condolence
Saturday, December 2, 2017
It saddens my heart to speak of Regina in the past. She was such a pleasure to be and work around. Regina possessed a kind, generous and helpful spirit. She was an extremely hard worker and didn't let the little things bother her. She often spoke fondly of her children, husband and college girls trip that she took every year. Regina will forever be missed! May she sleep peacefully!
Your per session co-workers,
Josette, Linda, Khalima, Ananie, Maryange, Kima, Dimitra, Ladesha, and Layo
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Karen McAree posted a condolence
Friday, December 1, 2017
I wanted to extend a message to the Multer Family with deepest sympathy... As much as Regina is loved by her direct family, I'm not sure everyone really understands the huge part she has played in so many other family's lives.
Regina was assigned as my son's speech therapist back in March of this year, but she quickly became so much more than that. She became his (and our!) teacher, counselor, advisor and more importantly, our friend. My son's eyes would light up when he saw her, smiling from ear to ear. Eventually he would do so while shouting, "Gigi!!!" when he would see her - one of his first words-
which because of her that he was able to say.
Although our hearts ache, we're continually fighting back tears and trying to accept and understand why such a good person was taken from us far too soon, I seek comfort in remembering that the difference Regina has made in so many lives (especially our children's) means that she will always be with us. She will forever live on through everyone she has selflessly helped with her amazing knowledge, talents, caring, concern, dedication and beautiful, loving heart. I regret that I don't think we had a chance to adequately thank her in person for all she has done for us, but we will continue to thank her every day in our hearts.
This poem by Mary Elizabeth Fry has always offered us comfort in the passing of loved ones, I hope it will do the same for her family at this time...
"Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die."
God bless her beautiful mind, body and soul.
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Karen McAree posted a condolence
Friday, December 1, 2017
I wanted to extend a message to the Multer Family with deepest sympathy... As much as Regina is loved by her direct family, I'm not sure everyone really understands the huge part she has played in so many other family's lives.
Regina was assigned as my son's speech therapist back in March of this year, but she quickly became so much more than that. She became his (and our!) teacher, counselor, advisor and more importantly, our friend. My son's eyes would light up when he saw her, smiling from ear to ear. Eventually he would do so while shouting, "Gigi!!!" when he would see her - one of his first words-
which because of her that he was able to say.
Although our hearts ache, we're continually fighting back tears and trying to accept and understand why such a good person was taken from us far too soon, I seek comfort in remembering that the difference Regina has made in so many lives (especially our children's) means that she will always be with us. She will forever live on through everyone she has selflessly helped with her amazing knowledge, talents, caring, concern, dedication and beautiful, loving heart. I regret that I don't think we had a chance to adequately thank her in person for all she has done for us, but we will continue to thank her every day in our hearts.
This poem by Mary Elizabeth Fry has always offered us comfort in the passing of loved ones, I hope it will do the same for her family at this time...
"Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die."
God bless her beautiful mind, body and soul.
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Alelia Doctor posted a condolence
Friday, December 1, 2017
My sincere condolences to the family. I worked with Ms. Multer for many years at KAPPA V middle school in Brooklyn. She was kind and helpful, very professional and is truly missed by the staff and students.
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Dearest Mrs. Multer:
Your smile,your laughter and your warmth will surely be missed. Our Walter Francis White Family will surely miss you. We were blessed to have known you.
Always in our hearts,
Tonya Cheeks
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Layo Katibi posted a condolence
Thursday, November 30, 2017
I remember Regina…
I remember Regina… kind, very kind; loving and giving, very giving of herself, ready to help and to extend herself; jovial and friendly; a beautiful lady with a kind and open heart, and an infectious laughter.
I remember Regina…
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Anne M Sady posted a condolence
Thursday, November 30, 2017
To my dearest friend. I will miss you forever. Every memory I have growing up involves you. I especially remember going to Girl Scout camp and entertaining the campers with our own version of I Love Lucy escapades. I remember how we loved the Monkees--you loved Davey Jones and I loved Mickey Dolenz. I will remember working the assembly line at Estee Lauder cosmetics during college breaks. I remember going for countless rides in my red Volkswagen and not seeing each other for years but picking up right where we left off. I will remember your sweet soul and kind spirit forever. Fly high with the angels my beautiful friend.
Anne Marie
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I'm lighting a candle to let it shine bright into the night for you. You are a beautiful person inside and out. Your smile and your love always made us feel good.
I will hold you in my heart forever.
Love, Edna
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Fran and Steve Seigel and family posted a condolence
Thursday, November 30, 2017
DearTom and family.
We were all so shocked and saddened to hear of the loss.of your wonderful loving wife, Regina and Eric, Kellly and Allison’s wonderful, loving mother. Regina was a very special lady whose friendship was an honor and our family has so many very fond and fun memories with our mutual friends, the Blunbergs back in the day in Oyster Bay and then in later years as well at special occasions Sending all our love and deepest sympathy to you all and your families at this very sad time.
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If your looking down tonight and see our candle burning bright, it say's we're wishing you were here. Love you Regina.
Love Arlene and Bob
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Maryann Barry Ressa posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 29, 2017
Dearest Tom and family,
I am sending my very deepest sympathy to you, your children, Mrs. Hedberg, Marianne, Allan and Christine. To me, Regina was and will always be like a ray of sunshine! Her infectious laugh, her gentle, loyal and sincere way and her beautiful face and pearly whites are forever etched in my mind and heart. I have only the fondest of memories of the two of you when your were dating, Tom's first place and your spectacular wedding and home in Bayville. You both were so kind, gracious and fun! I am deeply saddened and know that the world lost a very special person... But I also know that the WORLD is a better place because of her!!! May God comfort you all. I have no doubt that the Lord is holding her in the Palm of his Hand.
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Kathy Dowd posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 29, 2017
Tom, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Regina. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I will always remember her with a smile on her face and a hearty laugh.
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Sheila and Dan O'Donnell posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 29, 2017
Tom, Kelly, Eric and Allison We were so sorry to hear that your wife, mother, Regina had passed away. You ae all in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this most difficult time. Thinking of all of you the next few days. Sheila and Dan O'Donnell
(Robs parents)
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RUDY RUFER posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 29, 2017
TO THE MULTER FAMILY so sad to hear this terrible news of the loss of a great lady my God bless her and her family Tom, Eric, Kelly and Allison sending you prays in this tough time God Bless you all RIP REGINA
RUDY RUFER
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Carol Garrick posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 28, 2017
God's peace with the family of our dedicated colleague. We will miss her cheerful presence in our building.
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Tuesday, November 28, 2017
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Dear Tom, Eric, Kelly and Allison,
We extend our deepest sympathies to all of you... may you cherish the wonderful memories of your wife/mother and always be there for each other...
Sincerely,
Tom and Joan
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Molly Gantner posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 28, 2017
Regina was a wonderful friend to all of us bringing love, laughter and immense joy. We all hold a special place in our hearts just for her. She was loved and cherished beyond words. We are grateful to have known such a loving, joyful, talented, caring, kind, funny, resourceful, beautiful, smart, girlfriend/mother/wife/sister/daughter.
Rest in peace dear friend.
Love from your "Sisters" and BFFs Forever,
Kathy, Diane, Gretchen, Colleen, Roseanne, Laura, Beth and Molly
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Dave Lind posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 28, 2017
Tom, heartfelt condolences to you and your family at this unimaginable loss. Thoughts and prayers are with all of you and know that the strength Regina showed you during your time together will help you throughout this time.
Dave Lind
Bangkok, Thailand
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The Notaro Family posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 28, 2017
Dear Tom, Eric, Kelly & Allison,
We were so sorry to hear of Regina's passing. Please know you will be in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Love,
Kathy, Kirsten & Christopher
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Vivianne Laura posted a condolence
Monday, November 27, 2017
As a fellow speech/language teacher, I cannot find the words to express the shock and grief of learning about Regina's passing. I knew her for many years and she cared deeply for the children she serviced at the Department of Education and Early Intervention after school. She is gone much too early and I send my deepest condolences to her family and friends. Rest now, Regina.
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Erica Mitchell posted a condolence
Monday, November 27, 2017
My prayers are with you. Mrs. Multer was a sweet soul.
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Linda, John, Lauren and Peter Ottaviano posted a condolence
Monday, November 27, 2017
Tom, Eric, Kelly and Allison, we love you guys and are so sorry and saddened for the loss of Regina. We wish you strength, resilience and wonderful memories.
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Keeshia Jean posted a condolence
Monday, November 27, 2017
Regina was such a kind soul. I had the pleasure of working alongside her as a fellow speech and language therapist on a group project a couple of years ago. I am in utter shock to hear of her passing. I would like to extend my deepest condolences to her family and friends.
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Rosaluz Rivera posted a condolence
Monday, November 27, 2017
So sad to hear about Regina's passing. My most deepest condolences to her husband, children and family. Eternal rest grant unto her, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her. May she rest in peace. Amen
Rosaluz Rivera
Speech teacher.
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Laura Schwartz posted a condolence
Monday, November 27, 2017
Regina will be missed by so many. I had worked with Regina for many years. I picture her smiling, laughing and throwing her head back. Regina. You will be missed and always in my heart. I will miss those daily conversations only we could laugh about. My condolences to all
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Joe and Eileen Pietrofere posted a condolence
Sunday, November 26, 2017
Dear Tom, Eric, Kelly and Allison,
Words cannot express the shock and sadness of Regina's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We shared a lot of great times together over the years when our kids were growing up in St. Dominick's school. Regina will be missed, may she rest in peace.
Love, Joe and Eileen Pietrofere
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